10. The surprising shock of being identified as intellectually gifted! Meet Laurence

Two weeks ago Laurence learned about the English term “giftedness” by listening to this podcast. After hearing a few of the guests describe their experiences she started doing her own google research about this topic. She could relate to the stories and the checklists. A week ago she reached out to a gifted specialist in Munich for her own evaluation. Four days ago she had her appointment and the confirmation that she is indeed an intellectually gifted adult. She is currently processing this information and reflecting on the past as well as planning for her future. Her story is a beautiful and typical example of how someone learns about their own giftedness in their adult life. During these first few days she experienced the typical emotional rollercoaster. It is amazing that Laurence is willing to share and allow us a glimpse into these few vulnerable days.

TAKEAWAYS FROM THIS EPISODE:

• You can have a high IQ and be lazy student

• Despite the stereotype, you can be a gifted blond woman

• Some people are made to feel guilty for what others don’t have. For example being a fast learner can evoke jealousy in others.

• What you decide to do with your giftedness is your own personal choice.

• Not knowing about your own giftedness while growing up and being a young adult might be a good thing, as it takes away the pressure and the expectations (from other but also yourself)

MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:

Andrea Schwiebert’s website and book

Praxis für Hochbegabte München website